It feels great to be needed, to be the one people turn to for advice and decisions, and to be the one who is always "cool as a cucumber". I know I'm that person to some people. My husband looks to me often to make the decisions, to be calm and comforting, to be the rational one.

I'm a geek and pretty proud of it too. I discovered today that two of my very favourite actors are going to be at the Toronto FanExpo in August. My inner voice was squealing in delight and drooling over the thought of going. And now I have convinced myself I must go. The world will end if I don't! Life will be meaningless!

Ok, its not quite that bad...yet.

Sometimes in life you have to reward yourself with some frivoulous spending. How else are you going to motivate yourself to be good the res...